Politeness is Attention, Not Your Sitting Position

“You were noticed negatively in the last Teams meeting.”

A colleague called me yesterday.

Supposedly, I was vacuuming in the background.

I wasn’t vacuuming. I was doing weight lifting.

And I would do it again, any time.

Here is why:

The meeting was pure information exchange. Listening. Answering questions. No slides. No workshop. No presentation.

I don’t sit at my desk for that. That would be wasted time.

What most people don’t know: When I move, I listen better. Less mental distraction. More focus.

Movement is not a contradiction to attention. Movement is the prerequisite for it.

What nobody noticed either: I worked through my lunch break for this. The hour I usually train.

The result: One hour of meeting became one hour of Deep Work. Same performance. Better distribution.

Don’t get me wrong: If the house is on fire, I’ll sit at my desk for 12 hours. No discussion.

But when nothing urgent is pending, then I decide in which mode I work.

To managers who find this inappropriate: If you only pay market average salaries, exactly this freedom is what retains talent. Not the fruit basket. Not the mission statement. It’s the autonomy.

To colleagues who find this inappropriate: If more people did this, fewer would drop dead from cardiovascular disease in their late 50s or sit at the doctor’s with a broken back.

Here is the truth:

Politeness is not sitting position. Politeness is attention.

And that has never been better.

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Author: Martin Weitzel

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